What happened to us ?

What happened to us ? A lot of people in my generation say "I don't want to get married" or "I don't want to have children". What's up with that? Life is intended to have a partner. I understand we may be single, there may be a time you have to cut someone off, and certain things might make it hard to trust. That's understandable, but why brag about it ? Our grandparents went through a plethora of things in their relationships but they didn't throw it away, they fixed it 

. It also works both ways. Some people don't mind being the reason someone is single, has trust issues, or had to cut someone off. Pride issues make it hard to commit, or to even care. A lot of guys want to impress their boys instead of loving the girl that makes them happy. They want to keep up with what their no good friends are doing. Like sleeping with several girls. Do you not remember STDS , AIDS, etc. actually exist ? ITS OK TO TREAT SOMEONE RIGHT, or to do nice things for them to show your appreciation. They call girls crazy, but lead them on just to sleep with them. Or just never let her know she's appreciated. They say they don't want girls who dress slutty, expose their body but they will have a girl and still entertain that type they just said they didn't want.  It's not only the guys, it's some girls as well. A lot of girls do the exact same thing I stated above that guys do. Females also settle too often for a sorry man. If he doesn't want to get married one day, you can find someone who wants to, and may even treat you better. A lot of people in our generation have ill feelings toward love, relationships, or marriage because of things that have happened in their family. Who's to say that's going to happen to you? It doesn't have to, be better than that. It's ok to love ,and it's ok to trust. I have no issue trusting someone, until they give me a reason not to. I'm not some broken female. Let's also address cutting people off. That doesn't just apply to relationships, that goes to friendships and relationships with family members. FIX IT, it's ok!! If people put their pride to the side, a plethora of things could be worked out. Pride is a hell of a drug apparently. It kills a lot of things that can be mended. Next time you, or anyone else brags about anything above tell them find ways to do better , or be better . It's never cute to brag about "negatives".